Just before few days ago, I knew about one Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who is also Harvard Educated - Trevor Crow - http://www.trevorcrow.com/
She received her Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy at Fairfield University, and she is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in good standing with the Association of Marriage and Family Therapy.
I am sure, you are Twitter right!!!, so you can also follow her at - https://twitter.com/TrevorCrowLMFT
Click here to listen live to Trevors' show that airs on WDJZ 1530 AM, on Tuesdays, from 10 to 11 AM and again from 8PM to 9PM EST. - http://www.wdjzradio.com/#!__listen-live
Marriage is a certainly an important and big decision of life. However, maintaining the relation is not easy for every couple. With due course of time, either the relation would get stronger or else, it would get difficult for both partners to bear each other.
In most of the cases, it is seen that marital issues become more prominent in relationships rather than getting stronger and deeper. Many times, situations get so worse that the only option left between the couples is to get separated.
There can be several reason accounts for growing divorce cases and marital issues among the couples. Miscommunication, misunderstanding, infidelity, dominance, anger, domestic and physical violence or financial issues, there can be number of reasons that can ruin your married life. Moreover, once you start disliking your partner, even the smallest of their mistakes seem blunders to you and ultimately it would led to differences between both of you.
A common occurrence for many couples is to leave counseling and share the results of what was covered with their friends. While this might seem harmless, it tends to draw people into taking sides. Friends may mean well, but if they don't have a degree in marriage counseling then they should not get involved. If they were that knowledgeable... then you would be paying them to counsel you, right? It is wisest to leave marriage counseling to your marriage counselor, and friendships to your friends.
Make sure once you start counseling you really give it a fair chance. If you feel the session was geared more towards making your spouse look good and making you look like the villain, then don't call it quits. In your next session, tell the counselor how you feel; then the reason behind those feelings can be explored fully.
The effectiveness of marriage counseling significantly depends on the participation of the husband and wife. Those who profoundly benefit from marriage counseling are those young couples, those couples that are still in love with each other who were just bothered by insecurities and problems and those couples who are still open for change and therapy. At the start of any conflict, couples must seek professional help if they think they cannot immediately resolve the issue. This is to make sure that the problem is immediately resolved. So, if you think that your relationship or marriage is in trouble, you should not wait, seek professional counseling immediately.
She received her Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy at Fairfield University, and she is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in good standing with the Association of Marriage and Family Therapy.
I am sure, you are Twitter right!!!, so you can also follow her at - https://twitter.com/TrevorCrowLMFT
Click here to listen live to Trevors' show that airs on WDJZ 1530 AM, on Tuesdays, from 10 to 11 AM and again from 8PM to 9PM EST. - http://www.wdjzradio.com/#!__listen-live
Marriage is a certainly an important and big decision of life. However, maintaining the relation is not easy for every couple. With due course of time, either the relation would get stronger or else, it would get difficult for both partners to bear each other.
In most of the cases, it is seen that marital issues become more prominent in relationships rather than getting stronger and deeper. Many times, situations get so worse that the only option left between the couples is to get separated.
There can be several reason accounts for growing divorce cases and marital issues among the couples. Miscommunication, misunderstanding, infidelity, dominance, anger, domestic and physical violence or financial issues, there can be number of reasons that can ruin your married life. Moreover, once you start disliking your partner, even the smallest of their mistakes seem blunders to you and ultimately it would led to differences between both of you.
A common occurrence for many couples is to leave counseling and share the results of what was covered with their friends. While this might seem harmless, it tends to draw people into taking sides. Friends may mean well, but if they don't have a degree in marriage counseling then they should not get involved. If they were that knowledgeable... then you would be paying them to counsel you, right? It is wisest to leave marriage counseling to your marriage counselor, and friendships to your friends.
Make sure once you start counseling you really give it a fair chance. If you feel the session was geared more towards making your spouse look good and making you look like the villain, then don't call it quits. In your next session, tell the counselor how you feel; then the reason behind those feelings can be explored fully.
The effectiveness of marriage counseling significantly depends on the participation of the husband and wife. Those who profoundly benefit from marriage counseling are those young couples, those couples that are still in love with each other who were just bothered by insecurities and problems and those couples who are still open for change and therapy. At the start of any conflict, couples must seek professional help if they think they cannot immediately resolve the issue. This is to make sure that the problem is immediately resolved. So, if you think that your relationship or marriage is in trouble, you should not wait, seek professional counseling immediately.
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